Henry Cloud and John Townsend have been helping me with my parenting. This six minute video will give you a great framework and overall picture of how you want your kids to be when they are adults. As parents, we are responsible for how we train up our kids either intentionally or by accident. Don’t let it happen by accident, but develop your game-plan and then get in the game!
Boundaries with Kids is an excellent book they’ve written along with Raising Great Kids.